Our belief system is so important to our overall health. Where these beliefs originate are so critical to our quality of life. When tragedy happens, a lot of times the belief of blaming and shaming each other starts too manifest into our closest relationships. And once the lie take root and the lie is believed, it becomes deception. Thinking I could have changed the situation or the outcome that led to her accident, is the lie of the enemy we call Satan. As a mother, I would give my life for my children. In fact,I planned and oversaw Sydney's needs for 19 years, and in a blink of an eye, a couple of poor decisions by a distracted driver and her boyfriend, she is WIPED off this planet. Be aware that once we believe the lie, that lie becomes deception, we process all our thoughts through the deception filter. We start to blame ourselves and close loved ones for the accident. Without awareness from the Lord's word to know who we are in Christ, then the deception becomes a pattern of thinking which becomes our feelings and these feelings become our actions and the actions become habits and we build a cycle of craziness from this the original lie.